Weddings are wonderful events where a new family is created! We were very pleased to receive a wedding invitation to the marriage of Ducha and Antonio on May 26, 2012. Ducha is a convert of just over 2 years. She is in her second year of university studies in social work. The only other member of the church in her family is her next younger brother. Antonio comes from a member family, all active. He is the oldest of the 3 Cruz brothers, all returned missionaries. He was recently called as Branch president of our sister branch, Mindelo Ramo 3.
| Note: this is Ducha's "real" name. Most people have a name from birth and than another nick name that they go by. Sometimes we have no idea what their name on the church records are. |
The invitation said the wedding would be at the Registo Civil in the Palácio da Justiça at 4:00 p.m. Not knowing the wedding customs, we decided to be on time!! We knew we were in the right place when there were groups of people, very dressed up, waiting outside. Not much after 4:00, a decorated car drove up and Ducha emerged with others of the family. We didn’t see Antonio.
Everyone went in and the first set of pictures were taken.
Ducha and her father in the foyer of the Palácio da Justiça.
| She is a beautiful bride, não é?? |
A special room had been set up for weddings. It was very simple – about 50 chairs in rows, a table, and a picture of a rose and 2 golden rings on the wall. Everyone came in to take a seat and Ducha and Antonio (he must have already been there) came in and sat down, front and center.
The back of the room. You can see several of our young adults and two sister missionaries – all here to enjoy the event and support their friends.
| Picture taking was the order of the day. |
Ducha and Antonio are waiting patiently for the justice to enter to begin the ceremony.
We were impressed that, as the justice read the various ordinances relating to marriage, he specifically said that marriage in Cape Verde is between 2 persons of different genders.
After a simple ceremony and ring exchange, Antonio signs the certificate. Ducha will also and then the 4 witnesses.
| The newly married couple! |
| Exiting the Palácio da Justiça in a rain of rice! |
| The couple in the bridal convertible, decorated and ready to go. |
The party is ready to begin. All the wedding guests get in their taxis and off we go in a long line. I guess there were about 10-12 taxies with the bridal convertible in the middle. The lead taxi took off and all followed. First, to the main plaza and circled around. And, by the way, every taxi is honking their horn!! Our taxi driver was particularly good!
Then we were led to the home of the bride. The honking taxis going through this section of town brought out the residents, wondering who in their area got married. It was quite a parade
Our companions in the taxi and ready to honk and roll! No reason not to have the taxi full! You paid the same amount.
After circling through the bride’s home area, we went back through town to the groom’s house where the party would be. It was a small home and the 50-60 people (at least) overfilled it.
| The line to enter the house. We weren't sure how everyone was going to get inside, but they did! |
As we entered the door, the first room was decorated and had a beautiful wedding cake on a table with the newly wedded couple standing behind it. Everyone that wanted to could get next to them for a picture. Of course we had to as well!!
A message of congratulations!
“Happiness to the betrothed”
| The wedding cake. It was beautifully done and made to order for the couple. |
The was hardly room to move with all the people that were there.
Notice the stairs on the left side of the picture. They led to the……
Roof top with a lot more room. There was a DJ playing traditional Cape Verdean music and a few couples dancing. And, best of all, with a nice cool breeze blowing, it was very pleasant on top.
We stayed for a while to visit with various people. But, it was time to go and we left the party in full swing.
| On our way home, going down the hill, we looked back up to the home. You could see and hear the party going! It is the house on the top level on the far left (with all the people on the roof). |
We pray that Ducha and Antonio will have great joy in their lives. They have a goal to go to the temple, maybe even this year, so their marriage can be an eternal one. We are very happy for them!