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| Celebrating 60 |
Dennis just turned 60 years old and, as Janet calculated, we have been serving our mission together for 60 days. Those are very different time scales, but they are both time scales and our 60 days eventually stretch into 60 weeks, then 60 months, and eventually into 60 years. Here are some reflections, mostly from Dennis, on the significance of 60.
To me 60 is big. I don’t expect to live another 60 years, so I am well into the second half of my life. Probably at least two thirds of my mortal life has passed. I ask myself, am I two thirds of the way towards the things I want to become in this life? Have I completed two thirds of the work I came here to do? Have I learned two thirds of what I needed to learn? Have I developed two thirds of the qualities and virtues that I need to develop here in mortality? Have I committed more than two thirds of the mistakes and sins as I seek to follow Him better? Have I done two thirds of the kind deeds, performed two thirds of the productive labor I am here to do, and passed two thirds of the tests I need to pass? Have I served two thirds of the people I need and want to serve? Have I blessed in one way or another two thirds of the lives I can bless? If not, then it is time to accelerate, not slow down, my efforts and progress.
In my 60 years I have had many wonderful experiences and met many more than 60 incredible people who have influenced and shaped my life. I am most grateful for my wife of 37 years who is my eternal companion but also my one and only mission companion for this mission and more to come.
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| A Birthday Breakfast with homemade Yogurt, Fruit, and Sourdough Waffles. Yum! |
As I sit here making this journal entry, in our rented apartment, in the city of Mindelo, on the island of São Vicente, in the island nation of Cabo Verde, listening to one of my favorite CD’s, The Best of Jenny Oaks Baker, typing on my Acer laptop, writing in my favorite word processor, WordPerfect, the situation is anything but one I could have ever foreseen. When I was born 60 years ago, Jenny Oaks Baker (an LDS mother and concert violinist) was not yet born. Cabo Verde was not yet an independent nation. The apartment building I am in did not exist. Computers, PDAs, CD’s, and millions of other inventions had not yet been conceived in the minds of mankind.
These 60 years have seen the rise of God’s kingdom in a glorious way. They have also seen the growth of Satan’s dominion on the earth and his misuse of all good things for his selfish and destructive purposes.
Sunday I was reading the Sunday School lesson on the revelation to Peter concerning the Lord’s desire to have the gospel taken to the gentile world. As a parallel example of revelation in our day, the manual referred to the revelation to President and Prophet Spencer W. Kimball to make the priesthood available to all worthy male members of the church. As I pondered on that miracle, it occurred to me that had that revelation not come, the gospel would not be here in Cabo Verde. I would not be here serving a mission. There would not be thousands of Cabo Verdianans enjoying the blessing of the restored gospel. Not a soul on these islands was likely aware of the revelation when it came.
This computer represents the marvelous technological advances during my life time. Of course computers exited before I did, as did jet airplanes, refrigerators, photography, and many more technologies, but in some ways they are dwarfed by the advances since then. On my lap is a computer more powerful than anything that existed on my birthday and it is tiny in size to anything that did exist.
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| Communication Link with our Other World |
This computer contains on its hard drive all my family history, thousands of photos of loved ones and exciting new places, plus the means of communicating by Email, by phone calls, and by video calling. It is capable of pulling in information stored in computers all over the world in seconds. It has a tiny camera above the screen that can pick up video of me and send it around the globe while my little grandchildren watch me talk to them and I watch them smile, giggle, dance, or whatever they feel like doing at the moment. I can call and talk with my parents on their phone in their house in Phoenix for just pennies per minute. And they will wish me a happy 60th birthday, on the 60th day of my mission to Cabo Verde (and they did).
In the 60 days we have been here we have moved from total foreigners to feeling pretty much at home. While there are aspects of our experience that are still rather foreign, the language and some customs that will never be ours, we know that this is our place to be, we are happy here, and find much good among the people. The work we have chosen to do during this season of our lives is to serve the people of Cabo Verde, and learn from them.
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| Our Young Friends stop by To Celebrate 60 with us |
We feel good that we have made progress on all the active projects, have submitted a new one of our own and as of Friday completed our part of it, and in two weeks we will complete another one of these, the school painting project. We have established ourselves with our key contacts and have established some level of trust with them.
We have had fun learning our way around the island, adapting to their food and making it our food, setting up our home so it better fits our needs, exploring the area, and getting to know people in their homes. We have setup our bank accounts and finances so we can easily pay our major bills. We feel like we are much more efficient in shopping and handing our temporal affairs so we can concentrate on the work of our mission call.
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A High Point in Cabo Verde - Mindelo and Porto Grande Below
Sister Susan Leonard joined the hike |
As I have further contemplated my 60 year milestone, with Janet’s help, I have reason to celebrate where we are. I like the analogy that we have scaled a high mountain peak and are looking out over the landscape of our lives. We can see some of the earlier milestones of our lives from where we enjoyed earlier vistas or felt lost in the woods. It all fits together more into a picture that reflects principles and decisions we have tried to follow in our lives.
As we talked we used the term predictable several times to describe our lives, our pattern of living, our decision making, etc. I would say I have tried to live a principle based life with the principles coming from the gospel of our Savior and from the pattern and example of parents and others we respect. We have learned that living the gospel brings predictable results. Decisions we made as adults to establish our roots in our church community and put career secondary to family and church, has provided many of the results in our lives that we prize. I can see that step by step this pattern of life has yielded a large degree of financial freedom, and significant spiritual and physical freedom. As such we enjoy spiritual and temporal fruits that allow us to do what we have chosen to do for these two years and to experience great joy in doing it. At 60 I have completed my income earning years and am now enjoying significant time freedom to pursue other priorities in my life.
Our predictable path has brought us to a seemingly unpredictable situation as I stated earlier. But that has been the case all along the pathway. We could have predicted that we would be in a good job situation, near a temple, raising a large family, but never imagined that would be the Bay Area. We could have predicted that I would finish college with a good degree and that our children would finish college. We would not have guessed that most of our children would complete graduate school and live outside of California. We could predict that our children would marry and raise families. We could not see that they would have us traveling around the US to visit our grandchildren. Fortunately our predictable pathway has made the option of that travel possible.
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| The Beautiful Coastline of Santo Antão |
We look back at many joyous experiences and gatherings, at wonderful vista points and at those difficult learning experiences that stretched us and our children. Those experiences too were an important part of this predictable pathway.
My earlier musing about the technological advances I have seen during my life is a reflection of how I see the world. The more important advances are the rather normal and maybe boring personal advances. I have tried to follow the Savior’s pathway for personal development, as I understood it and as my parents and others modeled it for me. There are many other pathways I could have followed, but they would have led to other destinations. I rejoice in the vista I am enjoying at my 60 year milestone, at the freedom I feel, and in the opportunities and promise of the next 30 years. I intend to continue my predictable lifestyle and pathway and to continue to enjoy the surprises and goodness it will bring.
P.S. We want to thank all who have sent Emails or other communications. Communication was always meant to be a two-way process. We love you all and appreciate hearing about your lives and families. We will try to respond to each note we receive. Best wishes from Elder and Sister Broderick